Comparing and despairing

Do you ever compare and despair?

Of course you do, it’s normal and looking on social media makes it even worse!

When comparing yourself to others leads to jealousy, however, it’s useless and demoralising, and it gives you a scarce view of the world, where other people’s gain can only be seen as a loss for you.

If you ever find envy or insecurity creeping into your mind, try thinking of 3 things you appreciate about that person and their accomplishments. It’s a great source of insight into what matters to you and can uncover some goals you may never have thought of. It’s having an abundance mentality.